Dear Worleys, This is what I was going to share at the memorial had we not run out of time:
Last night I asked out loud, “What do I say about you, Jennings? Help me, please.” Then I wondered, “Who am I to stand up here and talk about, someone so wonderful...so brilliant...so loved, so admired, and respected?” And then it dawned on me...the reason that I AM here to speak a few words about Jennings is that he made me feel included in his family’s life, he made me feel cared about like he was sincerely interested in my life, and who I’ve become since our younger years together in Forestville, Maryland. He made me feel like a friend who COULD speak of him at a time like this.
And after talking with some of his friends these past few years that we’ve been reunited, I realize that he made a LOT of people feel that way, like they are ALL friends that mattered to him.
Jennings was a gift to a broad spectrum of people, to science and academia, and especially to his family.
There’s a gaping hole in this world now that he’s gone. So much so that I keep wondering why...why is this beautiful human gone? Of course, no answer comes. So the closest thing I can think of in response is that we should be inspired to carry forth the indelible mark that Jennings left on our hearts, to live with purpose, and show our care and love for the people in our lives and those who aren’t.
God love you, Jennings! And God love all who have to live the rest of our days missing you!